It’s not all bad. Heightened self-consciousness, apartness, an inability to join in, physical shame and self-loathing they are not all bad.

It’s not all bad. Heightened self-consciousness, apartness, an inability to join in, physical shame and self-loathing they are not all bad. Those devils have been my angels. Without them I would never have disappeared into language, literature, the mind, laughter and all the mad intensities that made and unmade me.


Stephen Fry,

Moab Is My Washpot

We re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them

We re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness and call it love true love.


Robert Fulghum,

True Love

We join spokes together in a wheel, but it is the center hole that makes the wagon move.We shape clay into a pot, but it

We join spokes together in a wheel,
but it is the center hole
that makes the wagon move.

We shape clay into a pot,
but it is the emptiness inside
that holds whatever we want.

We hammer wood for a house,
but it is the inner space
that makes it livable.

We work with being,
but non-being is what we use.


Lao Tzu